Birthday Card For Sister

Happy birthday to you, sist :) I’m really grateful to have you as my sister. Wish all your wishes come true.

xoxo,

Parenting Tips

I was watching Kick Andy when I found this interesting fact. Why kids don't want to tell their parents if they done something wrong? Because parents usually get angry. Parents is also a human which is not perfect either, so why get angry when you can just forgive your kids and even better you give and teach them an explanation.

So what do the kids need? They need a validation, consists of 3P. First, PENERIMAAN (accepting), how you accept your kids' condition, good or bad, right or wrong. Second, PENGHARGAAN (appreciating), it's good to appreciate your kids. You can't only focus on the negative things, people usually do it. In case a kid gives 16 right answers of 20, parents usually too focus on the 4 wrong answers. "How could you answer it wrong?? Blablabla" And yeah, that shit happens over and over. Third, PUJIAN (praising), don't hesitate to praise your kids, tell them that they make you proud as a parent. (Taken from Kick Andy)

And also remember, that we don't raise a kid only, we raise another future adult (my sister's quote). So don't treat your kid as a kid forever, teach them how to grow up so they can socialize themselves inside the community.

My story... I can't understand why my mom is so underestimating me. She keeps complaining why I didn't take my first chance on sm*rt. I believe I deserve a better one! Why she couldn't accept it?! I know my capability, okay?! I can get something bigger than that. I know it! And while I'm still waiting for A*M's result, I told my mom that the candidates became 6 people, and she said "berat, berat" (english : it's hard). Why the hell she said that instead of "I know you can do it, San" or maybe "you're good enough to be chosen". Why she didn't give me a positive words and encouraged me to keep trying and fighting?? I still believe in myself, why she can't?! I'm really pissed off. That's why I don't really like to talk to her.

You know, me as a child needs supports and positive words, not all of those complains or pesimist feeling. We don't need it okay?! It will be really good if parents understand their child and support them no matter what happen. Be wise.

Well, I hope this post is useful for parents and future parents :)

Xoxo
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Jobseeker

Hey guys!! It's the 10th day of me living in Jakarta.. Hahaha.. This is practicing before I get the real one when I work. Fyi, I only managed my things for 4 days only :p

Besides, I'm gonna tell my story here. So I was called for an interview in PT A, but then the salary wasn't as high as my expectations. It was my first biggest dilemma in this new year. I meant, this was the first company I got deal with, the first company that wanted to hire me. And remembering the fact that I've been jobless for almost 6 months, I should've been taken it, right? Well yeah, despite the positive and negative things, that wasn't the company that I put #1 in my priority. I didn't know why but I kept my faith in PT B. But I was really confused at that time..

This was my first decision as adult woman (like my sis said), so finally I put my decision!! I refused it. Yeah, and my mom kept questioning me. It's really annoying! That's my choice mom, I deserve the best, I know it! You just need to keep in faith on me :)

After that bloody confusing thing, I met a headhunter that willing to help me distributing my CV to several companies. Thank God!! And the day after, I got a good news from PT B that I got called for next step.. Thank God again!! His time is just perfect :D

Now I'm in another dilemma of deciding whether to go back home or not. I had nothing to do everyday here, actually. But then I'm afraid that PT B would call me in near future.

So yah, here I am. Still here, in Jakarta, waiting my faith and belief to be happened. :)

See ya!! :*


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2010 Post Resume

For using and reading pleasure, i will resume some of my posts here. Like you all know, that 2010 was the year that i did blogging more active :)

And my specialty is about food journal, movie review, life lesson, etc. I give you an easy way to read all my interesting posts!! :D

Life lesson :

1. Jangan ngambek berkepanjangan
2. Love is blind
3. Sepakbola Indonesia
4. My Spirituality Zone
5. Used vs Loved
6. Jangan Sakiti Ibumu
7. Life Lesson
8. How much does the price for virginity?? *klik*
9. Chinese culture : good or bad?
10. Cerita Hidup (Part 1, Part 2)

Cerpen created by me :

1. Champagne Girl (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4)
2. Two Hearts (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4)
3. Goodbye
4. *Belom ada judul* klik

Food journal :

1. Musiro
2. Nagoya (Quality Hotel)
3. Foodfezt
4. Parsley
5. K’meals
6. Dae Jang Geum
7. Dixie
8. Pasta Gio
9. Yo Cafe
10. Cokelat
11. House of Raminten *tragedy*

Review :

1. Gunung Kidul Tourism
2. IMB
3. Xiuxiu meitu (Part 1, Part 2)
4. Open Happiness (Cocacola commercial)

Okay guys, enjoy reading and blogwalking!! :)

xoxo,

Happy 2011!!

Just wanna say Happy New Year to all of you!! :)

I wish we have a new soul and spirit, not only a new year.

I spent my NYE in the church and I'm glad that I could do that, entering this NY with God.

Enjoy this special card!!♥ Like I said, forget everything you regret in 2010.. Move on and believe that you can achieve the greater in 2011.

Happy New Year!! ;)